My sister is being a major MOH-zilla, what do I do?

My sister is really frustrated about my wedding. Her first marriage ended in divorce, after which she plunged into a new relationship with a guy that, after 3 years, seems to have no interest in marrying her, despite her insistence that he's going to propose (I'm not going to go into why I'd be surprised if he ever does propose, but for an example he told her a year and a half ago that after he won this one race (he's a race car driver) he was going to propose to her in the winner's circle - he won, no proposal). So even though she wants to be my MOH (and I want her to be, she's my only sister), she's really frustrated about the fact that I have a fiance, a house, and am getting all the things she wants out of her life but can't seem to get. So she's starting to go all MOH-zilla on me!





Now, when she got married the first time, I was her MOH and I did whatever she told me to do - wore the dress she wanted, got my hair done the way she liked, etc. I didn't complain about anything. I felt my job was to help her plan and get ready for her big day. But it seems like now she's trying to make my wedding day about her! We go to the same beauty salon, and the girl who does both our hair for cuts and coloring, and so on, is the one I'm going to have do my hair and makeup. Almost as soon as I mentioned that I was going to have this girl do my hair and makeup, she's like, ';I want to go to Linda (our stylist), I don't like how anybody else there does my hair.'; And said it in a really snotty way, like how dare I, the bride, have first dibs on the stylist.





Then she emails me a link to her bridesmaid wish lists at Alfred Angelo and David's Bridal about two days after I got engaged, before we'd even finalized a date, to show me which dresses she liked. None of them did anything for me, and none would even look good on her! The one dress I've seen so far that I know I really like she insists that she can't wear it because it'll make her look like a whale and I must want to pick that one so that everybody else in the bridal party looks good except her. Oh, and she also hates my gown and says the style is ugly (which it's not, just that she has different tastes than me).





So today we went to a bridal show, and we're walking around and I'm signing up for the free drawings and picking up brochures (because free stuff is awesome and I wanted to get some ideas) and she's like, ';You don't want to do that. You don't want to have that. I don't like that.';





To top this all off, we got the DJ she wanted us to get because the DJ company employs one of her boyfriend's friends, so we did it out of courtesy to him (not that he's going to get up and dance at the reception). Plus, I was mentioning how my fiance wasn't sure who to ask as his fourth groomsman in case my best friend, who is sick with leukemia, gets the green light from her doctor to participate, and how if he couldn't come up with another friend that I would suggest him asking my friend's husband, and my sister's like, ';Why would you do that, why wouldn't he want to invite his future brother in law?'; Meaning her boyfriend, to whom she is not engaged and whom we don't know that well, and whom my fiance doesn't really like that much.





I'm afraid that this is making me sound like a bridezilla, but I really haven't been. I've told her that it's my day, that she got to pick what she wanted for her wedding so I should be able to get what I like for mine, that I didn't see why I couldn't have the color and dress style that I like. And she's like, ';Well that color looks terrible on me and that dress is ugly,'; and so on. She's been really bitchy about pretty much every aspect of my wedding that I've shared with her so far. I don't know what to do.My sister is being a major MOH-zilla, what do I do?
I would just go ahead with the things you want for the wedding. If she continues to act this way I would calmly tell her ';I'm going to try and explain this to you one last time. When you got married you made yout choices on how you wanted your wedding. This is my turn and hopefully my one and only wedding and I want to look back at this day and remember it was exactly what I dreamed it would be. If you do get married again you are free to choose any colour and style dress you like, but for now, this is the dress and the colour scheme I am going with.'; that way you are telling her this is your wedding without being rude about it. Wanting to choose things for your wedding is not being a bridezilla. Wanting to choose everything for someone elses wedding is.My sister is being a major MOH-zilla, what do I do?
Your wedding your decisions to make not hers
Your wedding day is YOUR day! You make all the choices that you want. Do not let anyone run over you. Sit down and talk with her and let her know how you feel and then if she keeps it up i would replace her in the wedding party.
She sounds like the type of person that loves attention and needs it..


She wants to make everything about her.


ignore it. If her comments aren't constructive tell her to shut up.


Everything is up to you NOT her.


Tell her she doesn't help when she's being difficult.
perhaps she doesn't know she is hurting your feelings. try talking to her. if that doesn't work tell her what you need and want her to do.
My suggestion is to write her a letter if you can't sit down with her. Tell her that you feel very hurt that she can't just be happy for you and be supportive. Instead, all she does is *****, complain and discourage.





I have a sister just like that. Basically, both your sister and mine are bitter women that want the world to center around them and their misery. My sister can suck the joy out of even minor happy events. The difference is that my sister does it all the time, not just because I'm planning a wedding. My suggestion is to simply eliminate her from further planning. I can understand why it would be difficult to eliminate her as MOH, but at least you can minimize further contact unless there is reason to absolutely require her attendance and input. If she doesn't pull this crap around your mother, try to have your mom present.

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For Ladies: What do you think about a guy like me?

I've asked this question once before, but I would like to ask it one more time for some more replies so I can get a better picture of opinions. Thanks in advance.





So, I've always been commented for the way I dress, my personality, intelligence, and so on but I've never committed myself to a real relationship with anyone in particular and so I've always been curious as to how a woman really feels about someone like me and if it is appealing or am I just best friend material.





If I had to classify myself I would say that I was somewhat ';metrosexual';, a bit of a nerd, ambitious, humorous but not a class clown, conservative morals.





';Metrosexual'; - So yes, I do care how my appearance and my hygiene quite a bit. I was raised in a traditional family so my dressing style has always been preppy, some would say classy, others would say on the verge of homosexual. By metrosexual I mean I do care about how I dress, how my hair looks, I use hair products, facial cleansers, cologne. I try my best to keep clean鈥擨 am slightly a neat freak鈥攁nd stay fresh, I follow a nutrition plan and work out at the gym. But I am not extreme, I do not get manicures and pedicures.





For reference purposes, I usually dress along the lines of the items on this website, minus the blazars and jackets which would be for particular occasions:


http://style.ralphlauren.com/askralph/me鈥?/a>


but I do also dress casually in, say, a polo and jeans and sneakers.





Nerd %26amp; Ambitious - One of the most important goals of mine is to get into Harvard Medical School and become a plastic surgeon, followed by getting an MBA from Harvard Business School. I envision a life helping others and hopefully having time to spend some summers in 3rd world countries to donate money and participate in humanitarian aid groups. I am not ashamed of spending hours studying, volunteering, interning, but I know how to have fun, although I would prefer playing sports to binge drinking and random sex (although I've had my fair share of drinking games).





Humorous - I would say I am a light hearted humorous person but I am not the class clown and I can be serious but funny depending on the situation.





Conservative morals - I'm not the type of person who will get shitfaced the night before class nor am I into random hook ups. I am not attracted to ';hot'; girls but would rather use beautiful, pretty, or gorgeous, I don't know if this makes sense. My sense of fun is probably different from a lot of college students, I would rather go sailing, sitting by the fireplace, sitting on a train going through the fields of tuscany, visiting the luvre, or sitting down by the sand watching the sunset than to go to a party.





I appreciate nature, luxury cars, art, architecture, furniture (particularly victorian and french). I enjoy cooking, a typical activity associated with women. I occupy a lot of my time playing sports and working out. I do enjoy simple things such as movies, hanging out here and there, going to the pool, whatever, but I prefer doing big exciting or adventurous activities.





So, I know I wrote a lot, but what would a woman feel about someone like me? In addition, what would a college woman feel about a person like me?





For those who have wise comments such as suggesting that I am too much of a pansy to find a woman: I've never been in a committed relationship because I've never met someone that had the same criteria or someone I felt really matched. It's not like I have never had the chance to get into a relationship if I had the desire to do so.





For Ladies: What do you think about a guy like me?
This may sound a little strange,but you are prince charming!


I've always wondered what people think of me,too,because I,myself,am very much like you.At my school,most of the students also prefer hook-ups and drinking almost every weekend.I'm not so into such past-times,in all honesty,I dislike it so much.I would,too,rather enjoy the activities you've listed. It's been quite hard for me, also,to find a gentleman that appreciates activities such as sailing,cooking,picnics,etc.It is hard to find someone as sophisticated and intelligent as you are and I'm sorry,and surprised,that you haven't found a lady that appreciates you.I respect how passionate you are about Harvard very much,I'm sure you'll accomplish your dream.My dream is getting into Princeton and Harvard School of Dental Medicine.I love volunteering,too!It's certainly lovely that we have so much in common.Bottom line,I don't think you should be concerned about who you are,I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciates you soon.I just cannot believe that you haven't,considering how lovely you are.Best of Luck to you with Harvard,the good life,love,and just about anything that the tide could bring :)For Ladies: What do you think about a guy like me?
I don't know if you'll check this,but yes it is ;)!I love VV!


And thanks for choosing mine as best answer and your wish of good luck,


Good luck to you,too and I love your avatar!

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Haha. I wasn't really expecting a reply, but I figured I would check. I love VV too!


That doesn't really look like the setting of a VV store? Not to be weird or anything, but do you have that whale painted in your room or something? If so, that is ridiculously awesome.

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Haha yeah,I have it on my wall and thanks,I think it's awesome,too :)


Talking about VV,don't you just love their new Fall line?Their new ties for men are so beautiful!

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Haha! We were thinking of painting a polo horse and a sailboat on mine, but I don't know yet. Its pretty traditional right now.





Yeah, I was just looking at their website today, their ties, flip flops, and belts are always extraordinary! Hermes has some pretty awesome patterns on their ties too!

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I love the polo horse idea! On the other hand a traditional and classic room is always beautiful!


Yes,VV definitely has extraordinary items plus, they're comfortable,too!


Hermes' patterns are out of this world.I think they're just works of art. Their colours are so vivid and patterns so beautiful

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Another great store,I stumbled upon while roaming in Georgetown,is Ralph Lauren Rugby


Their rugbys,scarves,and pants are so gorgeous!

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I know! Hermes can be so simple, plain, but also so vibrant. Their store in the Tysons Corner area is really cool.

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Polo Ralph Lauren is one of my most frequented stores and the Rugby is the newest addition! I think I know which one you are talking about! Are you talking about the one that is on Wisconsin Avenue in Georgetown almost right across from the Polo Ralph Lauren store?

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Oh hey, since you've been in the Georgetown area have you seen the rows of small townhouses? I think they're simply amazing. Relatively small, and some even have deteriorating brick and stone walls but they are so nicely decorated with flowers, plants, and have very unique colonial details!

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Yes,the one in Wisconsin Ave!In front of Banana Republic!


I love Georgetown,they have Ralph Lauren,VV,and RL Rugby.My uncle's business in there,too.


And I agree about the Hermes in Tysons Corner,I love it!

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Yeah, Georgetown is spectacular, I like the Tyson's Corner area too, especially Tyson's II / Galleria, but Georgetown is so much more exciting walking down the streets as opposed to inside the buildings. You've been to that VV, too? Wow, how ironic!

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I definitely agree about Georgetown being more exciting.I love the VV there.


I like Galleria,too it's perhaps the best mall around here.

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Haha,yeah,not to sound creepy or anything but,do you live around the D.C. or Tysons area?Because,you seem to know a lot of places.I used to live in Georgetown but,I moved to the Tysons area due to their very good schools.I miss GT though,haha

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Haha! It's okay, I was wondering the same thing but didn't want to sound too creepy either. But actually no I live in Maryland, but I frequent both places which is approx. 40 minutes away.

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Actually, my parents have wanted to move to VA looking at Tyson's/Vienna, Great Falls, Fall's Church and so on, but now with my sister and I moving to college instead of moving they want to look at more waterfront areas like Annapolis to build summer cottages where we can come back and relax.

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Haha, so, my turn to hope not to sound creepy but do you have another form of communication? I don't know if you've noticed but there's this 300 character limit and its rather irritating.

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Isn't it beautiful?! I love almost everything about it鈥攖he buildings, the roads, the docks, even the fountains!


Either way works for me. I added you on Facebook, I should be easily recognizable by my attempt at a sailor pose. My e-mail is on my Facebook page I don't really want to post it here.

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you sound like a catch to me..
hm *attempts to read all of that* *gives up* but that shows your intelligent i think
if you are really like this, i would want to date you so bad!
To be honest, you sound very charming and desirable, but a bit too high-maintenance to me. More the type I'd want to set a friend up with.





But that's just me.
I'm not in college but you sound pretty cool to me, really!
You seem like a nice guy.. i admire your ambition and drive,


Theres also nothing wrong with wanting to look good..as long as your not high maintenance lol


Look am not sure what to say other than one day your gunna find somebody who will make you really happy :D





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Goodnight =)
i like the fact that you care about your appereance and hygiene. I will never date a guy that doesnt take showers daily or brushes his teeth thats just gross. And I hate how guys leave their houses dirty. I like how you dress too its casual and not sloppy at all. And I want to be a surgeon too. So thats good that you want to go to college. Funny is good too. Any girl would like a guy to make her smile when shes sad. I loved the part (Conservative morals) the most!. When I want to go on a date to the mountains or To a river. Guys don't want to. I never liked pearties my whole life. Especially beacuse I don't know how to dance. But other then that it's just insignificant. I hate it when people use words like hot or sexy . I like words like gorgeous, ravishing,pulchritudinous,splendid, exquisite. I love the way that you cook. I know how to bake :) I think a college woman would be so into you. Your a wise man. You are really mature. And so many girls would want to have an engaged relatioship with you. And I dont think any one should say that your too pansy to find a woman or whatsoever because every girl likes a different type of guy.



Wow, you sound like a great guy. ';A college woman'; is a pretty broad term. It could apply to a ';hot'; platinum blonde, tanorexic lush; or to a lesbian, or any female college student. haha. You are a man of specific tastes who requires a very specific woman. I think a man of your caliber would be quite the catch. From a college woman's perspective. Although the metrosexual thing would take some getting used to. I think most women appreciate all aspects of gender differences in a relationship.....so as long as you have enough manly traits, you're super-hygiene and fashion sense shouldn't be a problem. And you certainly don't sound like a pansy. Let me ask you this, can you kill a spider using minimal toilet paper? Do you find it awkward to sit with your legs closely crossed? Do you enjoy grilling your own food outside? If you answered yes to all of these, then you are indeed a man. Or a butch lesbian.
Sounds wonderful but too good to be true? Glad to hear about the good hygiene part. j'adore le musee du louvre. Il y a beacoup des ouvres d'art!

For ladies: What would you think of a guy like me?

So, I've always been commented for the way I dress, my personality, intelligence, and so on but I've never committed myself to a real relationship with anyone in particular and so I've always been curious as to how a woman really feels about someone like me and if it is appealing or am I just best friend material.



If I had to classify myself I would say that I was somewhat ';metrosexual';, a bit of a nerd, ambitious, humorous but not a class clown, conservative morals.



';Metrosexual'; - So yes, I do care how my appearance and my hygiene quite a bit. I was raised in a traditional family so my dressing style has always been preppy, some would say classy, others would say on the verge of homosexual. By metrosexual I mean I do care about how I dress, how my hair looks, I use hair products, facial cleansers, cologne. I try my best to keep clean擨 am slightly a neat freak攁nd stay fresh, I follow a nutrition plan and work out at the gym. But I am not extreme, I do not get manicures and pedicures.



For reference purposes, I usually dress along the lines of the items on this website, minus the blazars and jackets which would be for particular occasions:

http://style.ralphlauren.com/askralph/me

but I do also dress casually in, say, a polo and jeans and sneakers.



Nerd %26amp; Ambitious - One of the most important goals of mine is to get into Harvard Medical School and become a plastic surgeon, followed by getting an MBA from Harvard Business School. I envision a life helping others and hopefully having time to spend some summers in 3rd world countries to donate money and participate in humanitarian aid groups. I am not ashamed of spending hours studying, volunteering, interning, but I know how to have fun, although I would prefer playing sports to binge drinking and random sex (although I've had my fair share of drinking games).



Humorous - I would say I am a light hearted humorous person but I am not the class clown and I can be serious but funny depending on the situation.



Conservative morals - I'm not the type of person who will get shitfaced the night before class nor am I into random hook ups. I am not attracted to ';hot'; girls but would rather use beautiful, pretty, or gorgeous, I don't know if this makes sense. My sense of fun is probably different from a lot of college students, I would rather go sailing, sitting by the fireplace, sitting on a train going through the fields of tuscany, visiting the luvre, or sitting down by the sand watching the sunset than to go to a party.



I love the beautiful things in life: nature, luxury cars, art, architecture, furniture (particularly victorian and french). I enjoy cooking, a typical activity associated with women. I occupy a lot of my time playing sports and working out so I don't really spend that much time to say go to the movies.



So, I know I wrote a lot, but what would a woman feel about someone like me? In addition, what would a college woman feel about a person like me?







For ladies: What would you think of a guy like me?
I'm going to be honest, and am NOT judging you as a person, but based on my personal taste.



At first glance, I would find you to be an ambitious and very smart person that I could maybe be professional/casual friends with, but would find a tad bit boring as a life partner. I like guys that are down to earth and really funny, and from your detailed description, I can't envision casually cracking open a beer and laughing like crazy to Simpsons reruns with you.



You seem like a gentle person, but I feel there'd always be something intimidating about the standards you set for yourself (after all, such high expectations for yourself sets the bar for your partner as well).



You should realize, though, that MANY MANY girls would LOVE to have a guy like you. After all, it's rather obvious you are fully capable of providing a stable future (household, family, etc) and have a very giving and caring personality. I just personally am never attracted to ambitious metros, and this post was a partial summation of why that is.



Good Luck with your future love life!For ladies: What would you think of a guy like me?
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i am more into sk8er guys... but i am sure that somewhere out there, there is a gurl/woman that would absolutly love meeting a guy like u!!! hope i helped!!



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You seem like a nice guy. Any girl would be crazy to not give you a chance.
you seem really nice but your just not my type of guy i would date.



you actully remind me a lot of my best guy friend, but hes gay so yeh n/m.



you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and will make a girl very happy one day. =)
i think u are too organized and ';perfect';.

that doesnt mean i dont like u.

but dont change, girls like neat guys.

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You seem like a guy that seems too good to be true. I think you are way too focused on your career. Lay back a little have some fun and meet a nice girl who will appreciate your sophisticated style. With a slight gay kinda thing going on. Not being rude. I hope I helped. Thanks. =]]
Jeez, dude....too much information!
Hahhahahahahahhahahahha fag.

No wonder you've never been in a relationship.

Grow some balls and stop being such a pussy.

Ladies: I feel as though I am two people. (Beware: very long, a serious read)?

I had posted a version of this question awhile ago while I was still a high school student, but now as I am a college student much has changed. Yet, at times I feel that rather than truly changing I have adopted two different personalities that at certain times clash. What I was before and what I am now is quite a dilemma. So my question is, how do you feel about me before, how do you feel about me now, and how do you think I should integrate my characteristics together? *[Info in brackets indicate me now]*



So, I've always been commented for the way I dress, my personality, intelligence, and so on but I've never really found that special person who can keep me interested. Sure people come and go, but there always seems to be a lack of that one girl that I can stick with.



If I had to classify myself I would say that I was somewhat ';metrosexual';, a bit of a nerd, ambitious, humorous but not a class clown, conservative morals.



';Metrosexual'; - So yes, I do care how my appearance and my hygiene quite a bit. I was raised in a traditional family so my dressing style has always been preppy, some would say classy, others would say on the verge of homosexual. I would say I dress between a mix of classic, traditional preppy and urban lifestyle preppy. By metrosexual I mean I do care about how I dress, how my hair looks, I use hair products, facial cleansers, cologne. I try my best to keep clean擨 am slightly a neat freak攁nd stay fresh, I follow a nutrition plan and work out at the gym. But I am not extreme, I do not get manicures and pedicures. I do occasionally pick up a copy of Men's Health, Gentlemen's Quarterly, or Vogue.



[The past year I have been slacking up much more in my dress code. Because of the college environment I often find myself dressed in sweat pants, a tee, and tennis shoes, but at the same time I continue to dress the way I did before. It troubles some of my friends as they wonder why the drastic difference from day to day and remind me that ';dressing up'; (which to me is not) is not normal in college. I feel as though I lose a part of myself and my integrity when I dress so poorly.]



Nerd %26amp; Ambitious - One of the most important goals of mine is to get into Harvard Medical School and become a cosmetic surgeon, followed by getting an MBA from Harvard Business School. I envision a life helping others and hopefully having time to spend some summers in 3rd world countries to donate money and participate in humanitarian aid groups. I am not ashamed of spending hours studying, volunteering, interning, but I know how to have fun, although I would prefer playing sports to binge drinking and random sex (although I've had my fair share of drinking games). [My goals stay the same, but being introduced to the college life as a Freshman I have turned much more into the party boy I did not envision myself as. I find myself going to the bars, frat parties, house parties, etc. on the weekends and occasionally Thursdays and Fridays. I have become much more social than before and have been encountering situations that come along with the active nightlife that I did not want to happen before. Regardless I am somewhat enjoying this new mixture of study and play. Unfortunately, at the same time it is taking away from my time to just have some ';me'; time or to participate in other activities.]



Humorous - I would say I am a light hearted humorous person but I am not the class clown and I can be serious but funny depending on the situation. [I have dramatic changed from being subtle in humour to being very outspoken in any situation and being a comedian when I can. Don't get me wrong, I do not act like an idiot, but I do bring the fun whenever I can. As before, I would be more or less on the sidelines.]



Conservative morals - I'm not the type of person who will get shitfaced the night before class nor am I into random hook ups. I am not attracted to ';hot'; girls but would rather use beautiful, pretty, or gorgeous, I don't know if this makes sense. My sense of fun is probably different from a lot of college students, I would rather go sailing, sitting by the fireplace, sitting on a train going through the fields of tuscany, visiting the luvre, or sitting down by the sand watching the sunset than to go to a party. [These morals have been troubling me lately. As mentioned I have been partying and going out and encountering everything that comes along with that. Essentially looking at this I have broken many of my morals, but emotionally now it is a mixture of liking what I am doing and yet wanting to stick to my beliefs.]



I appreciate nature, luxury cars, art, architecture, furniture (particularly victorian and french). I greatly enjoy cooking, a typical activity associated with women. I occupy a lot of my time playing sports and working out. I do enjoy simple things such as movies, hanging out here and there, going to the pool, whatever, but I prefer doing big exciting or adventurous activities. [AllLadies: I feel as though I am two people. (Beware: very long, a serious read)?
Going to college is a drastic change in environments and with that comes the need for adaptation. That doesn't mean you have to change who you are but chances are you will end up different in some way because of the experiences you have. As far as the dressing - If it's something you enjoy and value then you should continue to do so. You may find, however, that your values change. You seem like a very ambitious person and your goals are commendable but I feel like they need to be more focused. It is great that you want to go into surgery and business but have you thought about what that entails? You don't just become a surgeon, you have to do four years of medical school followed by at least four more years of residency and specialization. When you become a doctor, especially a surgeon, you commit your life to it. I'm not saying your ambitions are impossible, I just hope you know what you are getting into. And the drinking and partying, I also fell into that scene when I first got to school. It is something that, in high school, I never envisioned myself in. But it is an experience nonetheless and it's fine that you are having fun and becoming more outgoing. College is a time to find yourself and even redefine yourself into the person you want to be. Almost everyone goes through periods in their life where they lose faith or change their beliefs in something. Drinking and partying in college is almost like a right of passage, but as long as you don't get too crazy with it and don't lose sight of your goals it's not a big deal.

You may feel like you are two different people at the moment, but you are really just in a transitional phase of your life. And hopefully you will come out of it heading in the right direction. Best of luck.Ladies: I feel as though I am two people. (Beware: very long, a serious read)?
I couldn't finishing reading it man, sorry.
You sound nice :)

It's just the environment you're in that shapes/affect you in some way.

You might want to take a step back, consolidate your thoughts, think about what you want yourself to be before getting overwhelmed by things you find is against your morals.
i think this is more of a discussion you need to have with someone than a question someone can answer. i didnt finish reading it all but just enjoy being your own person. you can be two ppl if you want, nothings wrong with two personalites

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Okayy, I bought some doc martens like 5 months ago I used them onlyy like 2 monthss, I used to dress all punk and stuff, but for s good reason I changed my attitude; and with that went my dressing style.

How do I make my seminew doc martens look old??

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i would say to put them underyour matress like you would with a baseball glove but that would crease them... so i think just wearing it around your house.. but to be honest you don't need them to look old to change your style, if you want it to be more on the fashionable side then i would just wear it with a flowerly dress and tights and add a grunge look to it. very cute





- i atually got a pair myself i love them!Fashion emergecyy! please please help mee!!?
You want your Doc Martins to look old? What's wrong with having them look not scruffy?



Anyway, just scuff them up a bit and don't polish them.



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I'm trying to make a dress using a pattern. The pattern is a Misses type robe-style dress, so exact sizing isn't that important I don't think. However, when I've come to measure myself I'm a 12 in the bust, 14 in the waist and 8 in the hips! I normally wear a size 8 (Australian) ready made clothes, but am a bit confused as to how to proceed with cutting out the pattern pieces here.



As I said, it's a robe style dress, so it wraps around and ties with a sash. So I take it that the most important places to fit are the shoulders and upper body, as the rest can be cinched in using the sash. My shoulders are skinny, so I don't think using a size 12 bodice is such a good idea. Is it possible to cut out say size 10 at the top of the bodice, but then go to a size 12/14 at the bottom of the bodice (the waist)?Help with dress making sizing, patterns?
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I have a dress similar to this one (picture included), how do I dress it up? What accessories should I wear?

I have a dress that's similar to this, but it's made of cotton, and it ties at the back, not at the side. I want to wear it to a party, but don't know what sort of accessories to wear with it? Such as, jewellery and such. What colour jewellery should I wear? I have a LOT of red stuff and blue stuff, would that look good?



http://www.blissworld.com/product/style/I have a dress similar to this one (picture included), how do I dress it up? What accessories should I wear?
the dress is sweet.

add a little colour for your accessories.

i like the colour tourquise thesedays!!I have a dress similar to this one (picture included), how do I dress it up? What accessories should I wear?
A long necklace... maybe a teal color with earrings and some cute shoes and a braclet..



The dress is cute
high heels, small earrings, mini purse, bracelet and have them all have at least some black in it
i think scourge dude has the best idea he must be gay...lol



but yes red and blue will not go well with the dress, if you wearing your hair up some dangling diamond earring with a tennis bracelet...some times less is best and necklace might be good but nothing to over the top...its a simple dress and doesn't need much accessories because its elegant...



have fun..