People raised by gay parents, how do you feel your life turned out and why? What are your pros and/or cons?

Also, I have more questions below, but please don't take offense to this, I'm just an outsider to this community trying to learn. I'm sincerely not trying to be offensive in any way.



1) For the guys, have you had successful sexual/loving relationships with women?



2) For the girls, have you had successful sexual/loving relationships with men?



3) Are any of you gay/les/bi, or sexually confused? Do you feel your parents effected this or not?



4) Do you feel you were raised well enough to understand the world and how to survive in it?



5) Were your parents fair with gender while raising you? I ask this one because I wonder if some lesbian couples get their daughters to treat men unequally, or are they fair, %26amp; do the gay male parents teach enough about women so that their kids aren't biased?



6) Did your parents try to talk you into fitting the opposite genders dress style, actions, etc, as a way to show you it;s okay to be either or?



Just questions from a nosey person.People raised by gay parents, how do you feel your life turned out and why? What are your pros and/or cons?
i had a friend with a lesbian mom and he turned out very straight and a really nice guy. His mom taught him to be a decent person -- which is much better than being a jerk. I think more people need lesbian moms.



I guess he is kind of walked on but it doesn't seem to bother him much -- no use fighting for the sake of fighting. when i said more poeple need lesbian moms i guess i should have not been so general -- just most people have pyscho parents that are completely self obsessed with their jobs and money and themselves and give no time to their kids and his mom was always there for him. good parenting skills aren't dictated by who you are attracted to. For the most part i think it takes a village to raise a child and most kids don't even have one decent parent --People raised by gay parents, how do you feel your life turned out and why? What are your pros and/or cons?
lseetz - Great answer as well.

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I don't actually think you can find a person raised by a gay couple that is in his/her teenage or older, most of them are still just kids...so maybe you'll not have accurate answers to that question.

Personally i think a person raised that way will have a lot of conflicts and will be kind of confused about relationships with the opposite sex and other stuff...but that's only my opinion.
kinda loading a gun here aint ya?



you really have no clue about gay people have you?



i was raised by straight parents, shouldnt that of made me straight?
yawns....
Hey.. i'm a lesbian, kudo's to you for asking such a question. It seems like you really are sincerely wondering how things go on with LGBT relationships and families.



Well, to tell you the truth it isnt much different from the heterosexual ones. For instance if you reversed your question and directed it at heterosexuals... the answers you get there would sum up to wut would happen in our relationships and families as well.



FYI, I was raised by staright parents, My older brother is straight as can be, My second brother is a transvetite, I am a lesbian, and my younger sister is in a very happy heterosexual marriage. So, i really dont think your parents sexuality derive's your's. Parents however have an influence on the kind of person you are... not totally but to a certain effect.... mind you, we become whoever we want to in time no matter how much our parents mould us or not.



Thanks for trying to get to know us. If i have hurt you in any way, i'm sorry i didnt intend to.



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