Am I wrong to be uncomfortable with my girlfriend's dress style?

I've been seeing this girl for a while. A long while. We recently have admitted that we truly love each other and want to spend life together.

I really enjoy spending time with her and as far as who she is, how she acts, and what she likes, she's perfect for me.



But there's one problem. She's a bit of a cross-dresser. She normally wears t-shirts and jeans, but sometimes (such as when go out to dinner) she wears a white button-down shirt with a tie. Now, I don't really mind this and I think it's cute but... she never ever wants to wear a dress. She's even specifically mentioned that if we get married (a long way off, but still) she wants to wear a suit during the ceremony and reception.



Now as far as this goes, I know a wedding is all about what the woman wants, but I can't help but feel a bit awkward and disappointed that she'd not even be willing to wear a dress just that one time.



I really don't want to be bothered by one little problem, since it's a matter of clothing and not the girl herself, but it just irks me to think that I'll never be able to see her in a nice piece of traditional women's clothing, even at what could be the happiest day of my life.



I've already talked to her about it, and she's not really willing to compromise on the subject. I just wanna know if it's wrong to feel a bit upset about this whole situation?Am I wrong to be uncomfortable with my girlfriend's dress style?
It's not odd at all. It would be unfair of her to ruin your day too, then if its a long time way. There has to be a reason. Try to delve into the matter. Something had to make her feel this way.Am I wrong to be uncomfortable with my girlfriend's dress style?
totally, no straight guy wants to feel like he is dating another guy. how old are you? (that's not suppose to come off as rude, just an honest question) i went through this stage my freshman year of high school. now I realize it was silly.
no its definatley not wrong. i dont get why she does that either and im a girl. mayb as she grow older she might change and change her views on how she dresses. have you tried buying her a dress as a present... or mayb for a special occasion? just hint that subject again.

goodluck :)


i think you should! there are probably some underlying feelings for the opposite sex too! but never the less as a man, it is uncomfortable to be with a woman who is is kind of manly! i think in a relationship, you should be able to compromise. as far as the wedding thing! that is totally unacceptable! i have a friend who refuses to were a dress and dress in nothing but guys clothes! but when she got married, she refused to not wear a dress! she said she dididn'tant him to feel like he's marrying a guy! so i think you guys sshouldtalk a little more about it. but, u knew this when you met her also